Mohs better lip: lots of swelling, no more carcinoma – updated with stitches

UPDATED: April 3, 2014 – What it looks like now.

I wanted to tell all the lovely people who found this post because they too were facing a Mohs procedure (didn’t even mean that pun) that I meant to get back to you and your comments a while ago, but life seems to take over. Here’s a breakdown of the recovery followed by a photo almost 11 months post surgery:

My Recovery: After my procedure the site was very numb for several months. The swelling and redness went down within a few weeks, but it was quite pink for about two months. My friend Shaugna gave me some Kelo-cote and I highly recommend that or a similar silicone treatment for the texture and color of the scar. The pain was only bad in the first days as the topical wore off, but it was mostly just numb for along time. I’m almost a year out and it’s still a bit numb in spots.

Complications: One of my external stitches didn’t come out with the rest, but luckily I saw it in the rearview mirror before I left the doctor’s office and went back in. They had some trouble getting a grip on it because it was there wasn’t much above the skin and that wasn’t comfortable.

The very center of my scar is a little wide and that’s because it’s where the biggest (both widest and deepest) part of the carcinoma was. It was strained as it healed and wasn’t closing as well as the top and bottom of the incision. It was actually a bit puckered and I saw my doctor about it because I was afraid it was coming apart. It wasn’t tearing, it just had more missing skin to heal over, and I wore a pressure bandage for awhile and had to put pressure on it with my fingers inside and outside of my mouth.

Then in August, three months after my procedure,I had an internal stitch that wasn’t absorbed work its way up to the surface. It looked like a hollywood zit, it was so big and with such an obvious head that it almost looked fake, but when it finally broke through the scar site finished healing.

In the end: I frequently meet women who have my scar. I don’t say anything to them, and if I hadn’t had it myself I wouldn’t even notice theirs. I don’t say anything, but I recognize it instantly because I have spent so much time looking at mine (not in a negative way, just treating it and putting the kelo-cote on) that I can tell exactly what it is.

I’m really good about wearing sunblock all of the time and am more aggressive about it with my kids and my husband (we’re all this fair).I also had my skin check in early January and I’ll be going in if I get suspicious.

The only advice I would have for those thinking about or about to have Mohs is to make sure you have a good doctor. Mine was great, but my original dermatologist should have sent me to him two years before she did. If you have something that bleeds with no reason, go immediately to have it checked out, and if your doctor even mentions that something looks suspicious, it’s better to biopsy it early. Even if it’s just a basal cell carcinoma, the sooner you get it removed, the smaller the injury and subsequent scar.

So . . . here’s the picture. I don’t think it looks bad at all, especially if you compare it to the post-op pictures, and this is with no makeup on the scar so you could see it. It’s a little pinker than normal from me cleaning my makeup off before I took the picture.

 

Thanks for following my journey and I wish all you Mohs folks health and happiness and a smooth recovery. Happy sunscreening!

Mohs
11 months later

 

 

 

 

 

 

UPDATED, May 2013 – stitches pictures waaay down at the bottom.

I wrote this post this because when I learned I needed Mohs surgery, everything I found online was genuinely helpful but very clinical – good example here.  I imagine other people who require Mohs surgery for their carcinomas might like to know what it’s like from inside the chair.  So here is a recap in case you find yourself nervously waiting a slice and dice of your own (it’s really not as bad as it sounds or looks).

In the parking lot Jim took a picture  lot of my little skin cancer.  It doesn’t look that big because it wasn’t large to begin with and then my original (non-surgeon) dermatologist sliced the top of it off for biopsy about a month ago.  So here it is roughly 2/3 of the original size.  It’s very white (and so am I) so it’s kind of hard to see.  I cropped so you can see it better – two white spots slightly left of center in the photo below.  The lower white spot has a darker spot in the center surrounded by a white ring.

My little carcinoma
My little carcinoma

I went in to the office (with my ever-lovin’-hubband Jim – man, am I blessed to have him) and paid my copay.  The nurse brought me back to sign the consent form. I felt silly and a little vulnerable because my feet didn’t reach the floor.

The surgical chair is like a dental chair, so the nurse leaned me way back  and gave me the Betadine treatment.  Since Liam (my son whose had 12 heart surgeries) has been doused in the surgical scrub (when he was two I had to bathe him with it before a surgery and I had it pre-op for my c-section for my daughter Moira) that was familiar and no biggie.

When the surgical lamp came on, they very kindly draped my face with a paper square that had a hole cut out in the center for the surgeon, but it blocked the light for me and was kind of like hiding under the blankets.  Cozy and reassuringly hidden, out came the needle.

Honestly the first round of needling was possibly the worst part, especially if you have a good surgeon because he/she will make sure to poke every nerve before the cutting starts.  Lots and lots of deep and meaningful pokes later and my lip was numb as can be.  After that my doctor performed a little artistry with a pen to make cut lines on my now “enhanced” swollen lip.

Nicely numbed, there was some slicing and lifting (felt like gentle tugging), then lots of snipping as the cells were removed for the pathologist.  To control the bleeding the surgeon cauterized my wound a few times.  I experienced cauterization with a previous finger surgery, so I was neither surprised nor delighted with the smell of my own burning flesh.  As it was directly beneath my left nostril it was more powerful than when I had minor hand surgery.

The whole procedure didn’t take terribly long, maybe twenty minutes. I then waited forty-five minutes (they had HGTV in the waiting room so it wasn’t that bad) for my results.  This is what I looked like while I waited.

First Round
First Round

The pathology report came back and I had three dots of cancer left in the wound area, so I went back and my face was draped again.  I had more shots (which hurt less than the first shots, most of them I didn’t even feel at all).  The doctor used the map to slice around the carcinoma area then clipped it out with scissors.  I will tell you, it’s kind of weird to hear someone cutting  skin off your face with scissors.  Then more cauterizing, bandaging, and waiting for the next pathology report.  The second round provided fewer cells to assess than the first, so it took less time.  This is me after the second surgical dig into my face.

second
After the second go-round but pre-stitches.

When the second pathology report came back clean, I just had to wait for another patient to finish his procedure, and I went back a third time for stitches.  This took the longest because there was new numbing in new places so it hurt a little, more cauterization (and I felt one of them and it felt like a little electric zap), then even more numbing because I was not supposed to feel that.  When the bleeding was controlled, the surgeon made the internal wound stitching.  After that he began snipping the healthy flesh to make it loose so it could be stretched over the missing flesh, and finally the top stitches.  That part took the longest because he went all the way around the wound to make the flaps and then sewed it up.

As someone who spent significant free-time between age 11 and 29 cross stitching, hearing the thread drag through one’s own skin on the face and feeling the familiar tension of the art of sewing beneath one’s nose is somewhat disconcerting.  However, it went well, and I was bandaged by the nurse who was incredibly kind to me in my nervousness.  I have a lot of local anesthetic swelling now though – see picture below.

afterstitches
After Stitches

That third bandage comes off tomorrow, and I have to 1) keep the wound and stitches moist with Vaseline, 2) try not to talk too much (oh my God this is the hardest part) and 3) eat soft foods so it heals with minimal scaring.  If you have this on your forehead or nose, the talking/eating part need not apply, but because it’s on my lip/mouth area I have to be cautious. Stitches come out next Monday, and I’ll update with a stitches picture later.

In the realm of pain, I think this is no worse than having totally worse a dental filling (so far – ask me again tomorrow), but it’s extremely visible to people around you.  So, that’s a bit awkward.  However, had I not set up an appointment  to see the dermatologist when it started bleeding in March, it would have just kept growing and growing and growing.  Considering the complexity the surgeon faced making the least of the scar, if the carcinoma was much bigger, the wound left would definitely be worse.

Even though I rarely played outside as a child, never smoked, always wear sunscreen and am under 40, I had a carcinoma.  It’s not a terrible cancer because it almost never spreads through the body, but if you don’t take care of it you can lose whole parts of your body (chunks of ear, nose, lip, etc).  Better to have it off before it gets big and even better not to get it at all.  I’d preach about the sunscreen, but I’m extraordinarily SPF compliant, and it still happened to me.  It just happens; the important part is being a grown up and getting it treated.

Now, the anesthetic is wearing off, and the construction crew that was re-paving my street has moved on.  So I’m going to take a nap because I was a bit nervous last night and did not sleep well.  Plus, after surgery crash naps are the best.

If you’re getting your face Mohs’d, or another body part done – good luck! Don’t be afraid, get a good and qualified surgeon, and congratulations for taking care of yourself!

Updated with stitchery pics – I warned you twice.  I had to go to Target for some prescriptions and I now know what it must feel like to be obviously disfigured . . . people kept looking away.  Makes me wonder what they thought.  “Dog bite?” “Car accident?” “Bar fight?” or “Domestic violence?”  I bet few if any suspected carcinoma.  Ah well, it will heal all in good time.  Until then, I’m staying in for a week when I get the stitches out.

stitches
This is a “little” skin cancer.
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Closer, but it’s so red/swollen you can’t see all the stitches.


146 thoughts on “Mohs better lip: lots of swelling, no more carcinoma – updated with stitches

  1. Amanda,,,, you life MUST slow down so you can enjoy!!! Love you and thinking special thoughts toward you ❤

  2. Oh my…I hope you are doing better…I do plan on getting my moles checked since you are the SECOND person this year that has had surgery on their mole. And yes, because I am one that likes the “stitches and blood” scene…please post an after picture…Lol…
    Im proud of you and i’m glad you are better.

  3. I too am scheduled for the Mohs surgery on upper lip line area in 2days. Very nervous and scared to say the least. Feel almost guilty for the vain part of the nervousness of OMG what will I look like post surgery let alone the pain factor. I have to remember what a positive step I’ve taken in my health. Your story and untouched pics have helped me tremendously on what to expect. So Thank You and I hope all is well.

      1. Amanda,

        Thanx so much for sharing. How does your lip look now? Could you post a pic? Just had Mohs right above lip and into top of lip. Very swollen and distorted. Scared of what it will look like in future. You are an inspiration.

        Thanx again.
        Mary

      2. Your such a trooper! had my surgery same exact incision and same spot as yours!! The first nite when the Lidocaine wore off geeeeezzzz… but Tylenol took the edge off..This morning I’m sucking coffee thru a straw but feeling better…Thanks for the encouragement! Linda

  4. Hi Amanda I just had the MOHs surgery done yesterday in the exact same spot you did!!! It is right under my nose, on my upper lip down into my lip. The right side of my upper lip is huge!! so I googled it and came across your blog. How long did it take for your lip to go back to normal? I feel like I look insane and do not want to go out in public lol

    1. Hi! It took a few weeks for it to flatten out and be more pink than red. In August an internal stitch that didn’t absorb worked its way out. Since then it has healed very nicely. I think it would have healed much faster if that knot had absorbed as planned. My husband will take a pic in the morning (in sunlight) and I’ll post it.

      Hope you feel a lot better soon. I mostly stayed in until the stitches came out.

  5. I had the identical procedure on the right side of my lip on the 15th of January. My procedure went exactly as you described, with the exception of a second round to get all the margins. What I wasn’t prepared for was all the swelling. I’m now on post op day two and my upper lip is over lapping my lower lip. I’m following all the post op instructions and have virtually no pain and there are no signs of infection, but the swelling really bugs me. I’d be interested to know how long it took for your swelling to completely resolve.

    1. Hi, Bob. Yes the swelling went down in about a week it was no longer swollen at all, it just receded day by day. I finally got some snaps of my scar now and will post a new blog post for you and all the other basal cell/Mohs folks who have been asking either tonight or tomorrow. Thanks!

  6. Thanks Amanda. My swelling is down significantly. I’m 1 week post op and I’m anxious to get my sutures removed. When did yours come out?

      1. Thanks so much to all of you who paved the way for me! I ended up only needing one cut but the cut was basically from the bottom of my nose down into my lip after they took out triangles of skin above and below so they could fold over the stitches. I feel grateful but also feel like I could have handled whatever came my way. I will be able to apply a little makeup before the bridal shower next weekend and should be good to go for my son’s wedding in June! Katie

  7. I’m getting ready for surgery on Thursday and my spot is in almost the same place as Amanda. Thank so much for sharing this journey! I am wondering how long before the site is office-appropriate and hoping it is wedding-appropriate before my son’s wedding on June 29th!

    1. Hi, I hope your surgery went well! I updated with a photo 11 months out. http://wp.me/p1si9K-T8 I would say by June with a little concealor and powder no one will see it at all. When I wore makeup even two months out it was almost invisible and when people ask me about the surgery I had I have to point out the scar. The only time after the first two weeks that it was bad was when the internal stitch worked its way up, but if your incision is pretty straight (the carcinoma wasn’t too deep or wide) then your stitches will hopefully absorb easily. I just had a big hole in the middle of mine because it should have gone much sooner than it did.

  8. Katie, use plenty of ice packs to the wound for the first 48 hours and keep it moist with vasilene. Don’t be surprised at the amount of swelling. It will resolve and you will be good to go for the office by May 15th at 7:00 am. 🙂 I’ll bet you’ll be just perfect for the wedding.

    1. Bob, please tell me May 15th at 7 is a typo – that’s almost 2 months after my surgery! I do appreciate the support for perfection at my son’s wedding. Thank you for checking in with me on this!

      1. Sorry Katie…make that April 15th. Actually, I am just guestimating. Different individuals probably heal at different rates. Whatever you do, if you are a smoker…don’t smoke! Smoking retards the healing process. I’m sure you’ll do well. Good luck!

  9. I have the exact location and am scheduled for surgery Thursday. Very scared! Did you use a moh’s surgeon only or both a moh’s and plastic surgeon. Thank you for your blog

  10. Thank you Amanda for the information. I have just had the procedure in the exactly the same location above my lip. It has turned out well so far and I truly appreciate the fact that you shared your experience.

  11. Thank you for sharing! I’m having the surgery tomorrow and your blog is the only thing that put my fears at ease! I have the moderate version of skin cancer and left it untreated for 2 years because I thought it was just a blemish from pregnancy! Hopefully it did not spread but I am trying to stay positive. Thanks again!

  12. Hi Liz! I hope you are recovering well. Remember ICE and keep your head elevated.

    Rob, I’m sorry you had a bad experience. My bet is that your case is an exception to the usual experience.

    Katie? How about an update….

    I can happily report that I feel cured and my scar is barely visible. The lip feel back to normal and my wife even kisses me!

    1. I am doing very well. I feel like the scar is now just a part of my face and empowering because I took action on getting rid of the problem. I was psychotically careful about icing and keeping it covered with Vaseline at all times. Because I had scarring issues with a prior surgery close to my eye, I have a follow-up appointment with my doctor next week. I think she will say it’s healing well but I want to make sure. My appointment is in Boston on Patriot’s Day so I’m a little concerned about marathon traffic! Boston Strong! Katie

  13. Hi Amanda. I just came across this board. Just found out I have a BCC on my upper lip (same locale as yours). Being referred to a dermatologist who performs Moh’s. Feeling a little “ill” right now at the prospect (especially after googling pictures of the surgery on the web – I know bad move on my part). Amanda, did you use a Plastic Surgeon along with your dermatologist or just the Moh’s dermatologist. Thanks for your blog, though. It does put my mind at bit at ease about the process…Dana

    1. Hi, Dana. I had a Mohs dermatologist do it; no plastic surgeon involved. It was a day surgery in his office with a trained nurse. It wasn’t fun, but I’ve had hand surgery that was more painful and left a much worse scar, so I can’t really complain. I also have a 23 year old scar under my chin from a different surgery in highschool that is also more prominant, and it’s 22 years older than my Mohs scar – if that helps. I would definitely invest in some silicone gel for the scar after the Vaseline/stiches period ends. I’m certain my scar wouldn’t be as flat and pale if I’d not used it. My friend bought it for me, but I’ve since bought a larger tube on Amazon and am happy to have it for this and future use. In fact, I think it made my old scar under my chin even flatter and it’s quite old. Good luck! You might ask (if you have more than one to choose from) to speak to a former patient or to see photos of patients healed scars. The lady who did my intake and my referring dermatologist both had the same surgery by my Mohs guy and their scars were tiny. Mine is actually larger than theirs were but it’s both newer and I had that depth issue. I hope yours is shallow! 🙂

      1. HI Amanda, Thanks for the quick response. I have a consultation appt. the end of May with the Moh’s dermatologist/surgeon (who seems to be highly recommended in this area – Atlanta) so I will ask to see some before/after photos. Will definitely invest in some of the silicone gel. Still battling the nerves, but I suspect that will be going on for a little while – one positive aspect is that I’ve lost 4 pounds in the last 3 days (since getting the diagnosis). I foresee a batch of chocolate chip cookies in my near future…

      2. When I had lasik they gave me a Valium. I don’t see why this doctor couldn’t provide you a mild sedative to help you relax since you’ll just get local anesthesia. I managed alright, but my son’s had 12 heart surgeries, so I now have nerves of surgical steel (just kidding), but seriously it’s not uncommon to give patients something to calm their nerves for a procedure like that and if it’s really troubling you, it’s appropriate to inquire. Good luck!

  14. Thank you so much for posting this! Have a Moh’s scheduled for next week for a basal cell – right at the lip line. I think that your incision site looks great, and it makes me feel a little more comfortable about what’s getting ready to happen. I was wondering about the whole dermatologist or plastic surgeon as well.. Wondering who Dana, in the post above , is looking at using…I’m in the Atlanta area as well and have been researching like a crazy woman! Thank you again for sharing your experience.

    1. Hi Marcie,
      Finding Amanda’s blog has been a help to my psyche too! We are all at the lip line and I would consider myself lucky to have a scar as minimal as Amandas 🙂 My dermatologist referred me to Dr. Katarina Nalovic (who is a Moh’s surgeon). She’s in Buckhead and also may have an office OTP too. I have a consultation with her on May 29th. I’ve read nothing but great reviews about her, but I’m super TYPE A so wanted to have the consult first so I could see some before & afters, etc. I also have a consult with a plastic surgeon, Dr. Burke Robinson, in early June and have contacted another. Both of these I just found from scouring the web and reading about their experience with reconstruction post Moh’s surgery. Who are you doing your Moh’s surgery with? Wishing you a quick, easy, succesful and minimal experience 🙂

      1. Hi Dana,
        So glad to hear back from you! It’s good to be able to talk with people that are going through the same thing! I use Dr. Linda Benedict, and have been using her for years, as my regular dermatologist. Who is your doctor? I actually went to Dr. Nalovic for a squamous cell on my forehead last year – and she did a good job, but it was in a fairly easy spot to work with. I did see her last week( doing the same as you – consulting and deciding who I like the best and think will do the best job) and she told me it wasn’t going to be pretty for a while! So she’s very realistic, and I know a good surgeon, but with my lips I’m taking my time and looking at all options! ( a little type a here too, and apparently a little more vain than I realized!!) I am also consulting with two others: a Dr. Baucom, who is supposed to be really really good and has been recommended by another dermatologist, and some nurses that work at Dr. Benedict’s. Also consulting with a Dr. Pharris, also recommended by a couple of dermatologists as. I have made an appointment with Dr. Robinson too – but he’s a little further out schedule-wise than I would like to wait. I have two consults this Thursday and am going to try to make a decision then. I actually already have the procedure scheduled for Dr. Nalovic on May 29th, just in case, so if I choose her maybe we will run into each other! I’ve also struggled with the plastic surgeon vs Moh’s surgeon and there are so many different opinions. My daughter dates a doctor, and he feels that the Moh’s surgeons are very qualified, that they specialize in reconstruction and do these procedures day in and day out while the plastics don’t do the closures as much as they do. I’ve called several plastic surgeons and it seems as if there are only a few here and there that do the Moh’s closures. Anyway, I’m rambling on….I wish you good luck with everything too! Let me know if you find a wonderful doctor I haven’t found yet! and I’ll let you know about Baucom and Pharis after Thursday….

      2. Hello! Yes, it is good to have someone to talk with (in the same city) and going through the process. I have to admit, it has been a bit overwhelming. I have been going to Dr. Sylvia Wright (since we moved here 3 years ago). I’ve had a couple of BCC’s removed on the chest in Los Angeles, but that was about 4 years ago and the removal was minimal (cutterage). So this one on the lip is a bit more daunting (and as you said hits the vanity chord a little more than I would like to admit!). I would love to hear your thoughts of Baucom and Pharis after you’ve had your consults – it’s interesting that they both did their Moh’s fellowships with the same doctor in Pittsburgh. Please feel free to email me directly if you like. I”m at danamichelelambert@gmail.com. And yes, I may just bump into you at Dr. Nalovic’s office on the 29th!

      3. Good morning! It is a bit overwhelming! I’ve been driving myself and my family crazy! They will be glad when I get this done!!
        I will definitely let you know about Baucom and Pharis after tomorrow…I noticed that they trained under the same doctor as well..it’s a small world sometimes! My direct email is marcie.hamilton@comcast.net. I will talk to you soon! Marcie

  15. Amanda, just looking at your photos again – and you had a flap done when they stitched it up, right? They didn’t go through the lip line, but rather the stitches on top of the lip when they closed it? I’m hearing two different thoughts on closing, one is the flap, and the other straight through the lip. Have been researching and consulting like crazy and still can’t make a decision. Your spot looks fantastic though! Thanks again for posting this!

    1. Yes he cut right at my lip line but just under a couple of milimeters. The cut was in the pink part so the lower stitches and the very tiny scar are at the tip top of my lip not in the skin above it, though the top half of stitches were in the skin. I have to say that is the best and most well healed section of my entire scar. I think lips are resilient and more flexible. But good luck. I’m so happy I posted this on my blog because I think it really has been helpful to people. 🙂

      1. Thanks! Yes, it looks very good! Like I said, going back and forth between a flap and going straight through the lip. The more I look at yours, the more I think it would keep the natural line of the lip without the possibility of having it mismatched if they went through it. Your blog has been amazing – Dana and I met through here, and have been emailing back and forth as we consult and talk with the different doctors and options here in Atlanta. It’s been a huge help and source of support! Thank you! Thank you !

  16. I thank everyone for the postings. I just was diagnosed and am researching my options. My lesion crosses the vermilion of my lip straight up towards my nose. I am appreciative of the pictures presented and all the information as this helps me to understand what I will be facing. I am just concerned about scarring, reconstruction and healing times due to a hectic schedule that I lead. This blog will be my best friend for the next year.

  17. Hi, Mohs friends. I don’t know if you’ve looked around in the rest of my blog, but I wrote a book. It’s on sale right now on Kindle for $1.99 – amzn.to/1nisM7E if you would like to read it and support my writing.

    1. Bought your book Amanda, looking forward to reading it! Kim, just take your time and research all the doctors in your area, and being on your lip, you may want to consider a plastic surgeon. Ones that do MOH’s closures and take insurance can be hard to find though. It’s a process! I’ve consulted with about 4 doctors, and didn’t feel comfortable with all of them – still am trying to make that final decision. Good luck!

  18. I’m so thankful to have found this blog Amanda. I have a Squamish cell in the exact place as your was, and I live in Atlanta . My biopsy spot looks just like yours did and I’ve been worried about the end result cosmetically . Marcie and Dana if you have any input on doctors in the area I’d also like to hear about your experiences . I’ve been referred to Dr. Amy Kim but have not met with her yet. This is all new to me , I just got the news yesterday .

    1. Hi Christy,
      I have lots of info on doctors around the Atlanta area, and have had a squamous cell myself on my forehead – (although this latest was right on and above my lip.) You need to get that taken care of asap, it’s a little more aggressive than a basal cell. I’m not familiar with Dr. Kim, although the group that she’s in works with the plastic surgeon that I used for my closure. You’re welcome to email me @ marcie.hamilton@comcast.net and I can give you a few additional names and send you some pics if you want. Dana is from Los Angeles, and still has family out there, so ended up going to LA for her procedure. I’ll be happy to talk to you about it all, just let me know! Marcie

    2. Hi Christy! Glad to meet you via Amanda’s site. Amanda’s blog has been a wonderful conduit for everyone and so thankful that she chose to “put it all out there” to help all of us Moh’s newbies along 🙂 It was great to meet Marcie through here and we’ve been Moh’s buddies throughout both of our procedures. The anticipation you are no doubt feeling is completely expected (I definitely had more than a few panic moments about cosmetic outcomes & scarring), but ultimately the procedure is very worthwhile (I had mine done on July 30th) and recovery has been very good post surgery and I feel that scarring will be quite minimal. I moved from LA a few years ago (and my family still lives back there) so ultimately I chose to head back there to have the surgery and closure. I ended up having a plastic surgeon do the closure. This was just a personal choice on my part (mainly due to the location of my BCC which was right ON the cupids bow and was crossing the vermillion – I like to make things tricky that way!). I think Amanda had a Moh’s surgeon perform everything and she looks great so really it’s just finding the doctor (or doctors) you are most comfortable with and have experience in this area. Marcie did have her surgery done in Atlanta so I’ll let her respond to you about her experience and the doctor route she went with. If you have any questions whatsoever (or just need a friendly ear), please don’t hesitate to ask or get in touch. 🙂

      1. Hi Dana! Thanks for the reply, it really does help to discuss different options. I did hear from Marcie today. I believe before I make a final decision I’ll consult with the surgeon she used and also the Plastic Surgeon along with the ones recommended by my dermatologist . Im in a time crunch because of the type and also leaving on vacation the 17th of next month.

        Thanks again Amanda for starting this blog!!

      2. Dana: I too have a 8mm lesion that is at the cupid’s bow and crosses the vermillion. I had been referred to a Moh’s surgeon but due to what I learned, I have elected to have a facial plastic surgeon. I am scheduled for my surgery in two weeks and a bit apprehensive. I would love to hear more about your surgery and post op results.

      3. Hi Kim, nice to meet you. I’m happy to discuss my Mohs surgery and closure procedure in more detail with you. I don’t want to usurp Amanda’s blog with my own experience (!), but if you would like to email me directly I can give you more information on my BCC and Mohs experience (all positive mind you). It’s a tricky spot no doubt, but I’m feel really confident with the results thus far (almost 3 weeks + out). Feel free to contact me at danamichelelambert@gmail.com.

  19. Hi Amanda, thanks so much for posting your details! My MOHS surgery was in the same location, seems common… Anyway, stitches were removed a week ago, except for the three inside my lip, which are not dissolving AT ALL, and poking my bottom lip painfully. Then this morning noticed something blue, thin and threadlike poking its little self out of the bottom of my lip, argh! Reassuring to read your tale and know that this swelling, numbness and small hard areas are normal. My little dot was Squamous Cell, only 1.5mm and a non-bleeder, but the hole Dr left was 7mm x 9mm. Plastic Surgeon did repair 4 days later. Don’t mind having a cool scar because I’m so glad to have caught it early. Thanks again for sharing!

    1. Linda–I too had a lesion about the size of yours, removed Sept 5 and still have two pokey stitches inside my mouth. Am told that they will go away on their own.

  20. I too had Moh surgery upperlip been one week today. Im using Vaseline and during the day when I go to work I apply a fabric band aide on it with Vaseline. You mentioned Kelo-cote how soon did you start applying that? Thank you so much for posting and for the pictures! you look great I can only hope mine can heal as well!!

    1. I don’t remember exactly when (I think it was after the stitches were pulled), but I asked my doctor and had a conversation about the right time to start it. I would ask yours in follow up and see what he/she advises.

  21. Just diagnosed on bottom lip and surgery scheduled I’m not fair skinned and scared for end results. A little bump appeared on my bottom lip out of no where , biopsied that week and of course came back invasive squamous cell 3x3x2 mm.

    1. Update ! Surgery was Jan 6th and my dermatologist removed it all and no stitches needed . Recovery now with bandage and antibiotic cream . She did note that sun damaged cells showed up in the slides so we shall see !

  22. I was diagnosed with BCC on my top lip about 4 weeks ago. My surgery is scheduled for 12/16, with a MOHs specialist. The BCC is on the top lip right under the bow but on the underside of the lip. It was there for about 5 months before my hygienist suggested that I see my dermatologist. Before the biopsy, it was the size of a large cold sore. I have seen every scary picture on the web as well as reading several blogs like Amanda’s. Needless to say, the pictures have me freaked out. In reality, I keep telling myself , skin cancer is such a small thing, 1 in 5 get it and the survival rate is 90%+. I already battled colon cancer 15 years ago and beat it. The only rationalization I can give for being freaked out is vanity. This is my face that has to be cut and I am concerned about scaring. Silly!

      1. Marge–I too found this blog to be helpful during my initial diagnosis of bcc. I searched for the right path to take and wound up having my surgery on Sept 5, 2014 by a facial plastic surgeon. Yes, the pictures are a bit startling and I was unnerved to go through the ordeal. Thanks to another person, she gave me info on what to expect and I sooo appreciated the info. If you have any questions, you are free to contact me.

  23. Thank you for your courageous post. I hadnt been able to find anything like this post of yours in first person. I have to have Mohs surgery on a squamous cell cancer on dec 18 2014. The pictures and writing you have done here has given me strength and courage. Thank you so very much, Amanda.

    1. Hi Nancy
      I too had MOHs this past Thursday, so I’m in the recovery boat with you 🙂
      How did everything go?
      Happy Holidays!

  24. Happy Year to all of us MOHs survivors. I had my surgery on 12/16, with a specialist. He was able to get it all on the first try, but he did go deep on that cut. As I had said earlier it was on the underside of my lip. The reconstruction included a “Y” cut going right up to my nose. This allowed a flap to cover the cut in the lip and the surrounding area. I was able to change from the large bandage to two band aids after 24 hours and had to clean with peroxide and cover with vasaline twice a day. I had the stiches removed on 12/22, and went from the band aids to steri-strips which had to say on until they fell off naturally (12/26) . Like Amanda, I too have the numbness and came back today to read up to see if anyone else had it as well. I am still swollen and can feel the scar tissue but it scar is not too bad at all.
    I had no pain and honestly the worst part was the second set of injections to numb the area before the stitches and reconstruction. These went into the area directly under the nose and hurt. I go back for follow up on the 28th. Honestly, I would recommend my surgeon for anyone going through this procedure.
    Thanks to all for being here and sharing everything. Happy healing to all!

    1. Marge–Happy New Year, cancer free!! I had my surgery Sept 5, 2014 and still have numbness in my lip. My surgery went from right under my nose, and around into my mouth. My plastic surgeon did a cleft lip repair surgery, so I have a scar that is a line that extends from the right point of cupid’s bow, all the way under my lip and into my mouth. The underlying sutures can still be felt under the skin, but are getting better and less noticeable. I do think the numbness is going to be there for a while. But, it is gone, over and healing!! Best to you in your healing!!

    2. Did you go to a MOHs surgeon or plastic surgeon. I’m scheduled with a MOHs surgeon with 20 years experience. I’m feeling that he does more of these surgeries than a plastic surgeon. But he will refer to a plastic surgeon if need be. One can’t tell how deep it will be til they start procedure.
      How long were you it supposed to do any activity. I play lots of golf and tennis.

  25. Amanda, thank you so much for your post. My MOHs is scheduled for this Tuesday for a scc immediately above my lip. The unknown is scary. Thank you for sharing your experience. It is greatly appreciated.

  26. Thank you for sharing your pictures and story Amanda. I just had surgery on Monday and my stiches are similar to yours except for I have a straight line from the outer corner of my nose to my lip (two stitches on the tip of my lip). I am very surprised that I am numb from underneath my right eye, my whole nose, and 3/4 of the top of my lip. That is such a huge area to be numb! How long does the numbness stick around? The right side of my lip is still swollen and sagging a little. I am concerned that when I smile the right part of my lip will always sag down because now I have permanent nerve damage. Does your lip have any limited function or does it move the same on both sides when you smile?

    1. Nope, almost two years out and no droopy smile, but I remember that. I would say that within a year 98% of the numbness was gone. There is still a spot in the center that is a little nerve-dead but it is very small and I only noticed it when responding to your question and pressing against my skin, so not noticeable 99.9999% of the time unless my attention is drawn to it. Good luck with your recovery!

  27. I had two cancers on my upper lip, one on each side, and had mohs surgery November 2014. It’s almost four months out now and my scar are a lot less noticeable. The one problem I am experiencing is that there is less skin on my upper due to two wounds and my smile is now very tight. I’m not sure whether anyone else has this problem but I’m wondering whether I’ll have a more normal smile. I can feel “pulling” when I smile which reminds me of my scars.

    1. Loraine:
      I had plastic surgery to remove the bcc on my upper right lip. The surgeon did a great job and the scar line is now minimal. I too however; feel I have a tight smile. My upper right lip is much smaller than my left side due to amount of tissue removed. My lip is also a bit numb so it doesn’t raise the same as it used to. At first I was a bit self conscious, but over time, I am forgetting that my lip looks/feels different. It has been 6 months now since my surgery.

  28. Amanda, thank you so much for describing your experience and showing pictures. I’m having Mohs on 3/19 in the same area as yours. My Cancer looked very similar to yours too. So it was very helpful to see pictures of what I can expect. Doesn’t look like fun, but a necessary evil!

  29. I’m 42 year old male that was scared and hard headed, I had a spot on my bottom lip that wouldn’t heal. I kept ignoring it until it kept getting bigger. Well I finally went to a dermatologist and had a biopsy, wouldn’t you know it carcinoma. After two rounds of mobs they removed almost all of my lip. I asked the nurse to see it in a mirror, worst thing I could’ve ever done. I cried like a baby and the nurse gave me a pep talk of a lifetime, I felt better already! The next morning I had plastic surgery to fix my lip and when I came out of recovery I felt like a new man! So I strongly suggest not to ignore the signs like I did and see a doctor right away. I had a spot frozen off my neck a day or so later and they could have done the same to my lip if Id went sooner. Its not as bad as you think ..I only have about a one inch scar hidden by my goa tee. I’d do it all over again if I had to. Take of yourself and hope this helps you…

  30. Thank you so much for posting this ( I wish I had found it earlier-LOL) I am day 1 after having MOHS surgery on my top lip ( right above/touching my lip line) It’s still very swollen, but no pain. Ice packs are my friend! I’d smile if I could so I’ll just use an emoji!😊 Yours healed very nicely!
    Here’s to all of us healing and to those who are taking care of ourselves!

  31. What a thoughtful person you are to share your experience……..and the pictures. That is just so helpful for the rest of us who have to face this ordeal.

  32. I just had MOHS on 6/10/15 – mine looked like yours as far as being in the same place…however I have bruised alot down into my neck and around my top lip and it is very swollen – I can see a bit of improvement as of today Sunday….I get my stitches out on Wed…..I am so hoping by the end of next week it looks alot better – plus I have some stitches into my top lip…..I haven’t been anywhere since last Wed….so tired of being in the house!

  33. Thank you so much for writing/posting! I had a squamous cell carcinoma in pretty much exactly the same spot as yours. I was COMPLETELY freaked out by the prospect of the surgery and resulting scar, which is odd, because I’ve had thyroid cancer and have a four inch scar across my throat, but somehow the idea of a surgical wound and scar right in the MIDDLE of my face really completely stressed me out. Your post prepared me really well, my wound was stitched in a way very similar to yours, the pressure bandage looked just like yours, and had I not read your post in advance I would have been TERRIBLY unprepared for the procedure. Thanks to you, I let everyone know I’d be working at home for a week to give myself time for the swelling to go down and the skin to close, and it’s been no big deal. Well, maybe not no big deal, but MUCH more manageable than some of the images online led me to believe, and very much as you described.

  34. I have been doing the before surgery internet search and am glad I found your site. Some of the sites by surgery centers are pretty graphic and seem to show very nasty large holes in peoples faces. I had a spot on my nose last November and the dermatologist i went to referred me for a radiation procedure. I had radiation on the spot 2x per week for 4 weeks. after the radiation was done i developed a very ugly scabby spot across my nose. it took about 3 weeks to get to it’s worst and another 2 weeks to slowly begin sloughing off. Now I have a spot on my upper lip and figured I would be doing the radiation again, however now my insurance is questioning the procedure and radiation is not being considered the “standard” treatment. Money and insurance reimbursement is involved so I will be forced to do the Mohs surgery which is much more invasive. I hope my surgery comes out as great as your’s. Again, I really thank you for starting this post.

  35. I had a huge tumour (6.long, 3.5 cm across and 1 cm deep) cut out of my mouth and lip in July – and I’m really depressed about how sore and lumpy and numb it still is. You can hardly see the scar, but I can’t talk or eat properly, can’t drink out of a bottle or can and it’s so painful. I have a wonderful plastic surgeon who says it’s normal and he thinks it’s healing beautifully and just needs more time. But I feel so ugly and sore and disfigured and clumsy when I speak – I’m starting to just talk out of the one side because it’s less painful but of course that looks really weird! I know it sounds superficial and vain but I can’t even wear lipstick – and I feel so bland and boring and dull without it. Yes, I know it was cancer (just a BCC, not a melanoma) but it wasn’t even that evident – I just had a tiny but non-healing sore on my upper lip that I thought was just a cold sore – the tumour was all the way underneath. Sometimes I wish I’d never had the op …

    1. Hi Dorothy!!

      So glad you found this site to share your experiences. I found this site to be helpful during my situation with BCC. I too had a large lesion on my lip that required surgical removal by a plastic surgeon. It was on the cupids bow and was 8mm large. My incision went from under my nose, all the way under and into my mouth and attached to the inside of my nose. After surgery, I looked like a prize fighter for several weeks. I too was extremely concerned about how I looked and felt. My right side of my lip is now smaller than my left side. My mouth was noticeably tighter trying to open and use my mouth. The scar felt lumpy and really strange and my lip was numb. I too did not like to even consider lipstick and if I did wear it, I would draw the lines and try to fill in the right side of my lip.

      The nice thing about this is all this now happened 14 months ago. Today, I am grasping with the reality. I see myself in pictures and notice that I have chosen to not use or exercise my mouth. I now am stretching it, and smiling with a large smile again. The scar is less noticeable with the exercise and movement. I press on the lumps and they seem to be improving. I now will wear lipstick, just a lighter color than before. My smile is returning…not exactly the same…but neither am I a year later!! I am positive that this is improving daily and am not as concerned as I was last year. Time heals and this shall pass!!

      I wish you the best and you are always welcome to contact me!!

      Take care.

      Kim

      1. Dear Kim

        Thank you so, so much for taking the time to write to me. I made a typo in the size – the BCC was 6.5 cm long x 3.5 cm wide x 1 cm deep, so what with margins and the skin flap, it felt like half my face was gone (although obviously not). Your email is such a blessing every word is encouraging (I’ve printed it out and am carrying it around in my purse!). I don’t know exactly why I posted on this site – it just seemed to find me – and while it sounds dumb, it’s such a relief to find somebody else with exactly the same issues who’s further along the healing road then I am. I looked at other sites but people there are like really seriously dying or have lost three lungs, etc, etc, and even though my face/mouth wound is important to me it’s nothing compared to lung/spleen/breast cancer or even melanoma skin cancer. I’m been wavering between feeling sorry for myself and isolated and feeling like a total wuss – so your email has helped me more than you’ll ever know. Am feeling very supported and encouraged and strong and ready to get to grips with the ‘new normal’! Again, thank you and bless you!

        Doro

    2. Hi Dorothy,

      I had my MOH’s surgery for BCC about 1 1/2 years ago (July 2014) and believe me everything you are experiencing and feeling is completely justified. You aren’t being superficial or vain – you’ve been through a pretty scary episode and recovery unfortunately doesn’t happen overnight – BUT, it does happen!

      Something that seemed to really help the healing process for me was massaging the area a few times a day to break up any scar tissue. I’m sure your doc has (or had) you doing this, but it really helped my lumpy bumpy scar flatten out and the tingly/numbness finally went away. I also used those Scar Away silicone “band aids”. I’d just slap one on over my scar at night and I think they really worked with tackling the discoloration and
      bumpiness. My poor husband – he thought I was nuts, but hey!

      Sending good healing vibes your way 🙂

      Dana

  36. I had my lump removed with mohs on Nov. 2, 2015. I am still feeling tingly/numbness. Glad to hear it should get better. My surgery was not as large as first expected so I am happy about that. I had Brachytherapy on my nose last year at this time and that was 8 treatments over 4 weeks. The actual treatments were simple but for 1 month after I had a bloody nose every morning and had to sleep sitting up right. I developed a very large ugly black looking scab on my nose that lasted over a month. very ugly. At this point the Mohs surgery was less dramatic after the stitches came out.

  37. Hi Amanda – I too found the account of your mohs surgery very helpful and reassuring. Thank you! I’m about 3 weeks post op now. I went to a very skilled mohs surgeon in Boston. I had a plastic close it because my BC was an aggressive subtype and had been there many years so I wasn’t sure how extensive the wound would be. Fortunately the excision was still small enough (no more than 25% of the lip) to allow a straight closure. Mine was into the vermillion border so not sure a flap like yours would have worked but in my case both surgeons recommended the straight closure if possible. My lip joined up well but is considerably shorter on one side. Still, considering how much was taken out it’s really not as noticeable as I thought it would be. I’ve been using silicon tape at night and the gel during the day since the stitches came out and it does seem to be helping.The incision is still very red and lumpy in spots, though. I was wondering if this is normal after this amount of time so it’s helpful to read other’s experiences. .

    1. Hi Becky – and Hi to Rhonda too! It’s very reassuring to know you’re not alone, isn’t it? Becky – 3 weeks is a very short time. I’m just over 4 months and it really does take time. Rhona, my dear – you could also be in for a long haul – depending on how deep/big the incision was. It seems to be OK initially, but (for me anyway) the swelling and the soreness comes and goes. I’m finding that the numbness doesn’t seem to be getting any less numb – if anything, it’s stiffening up more, but apparently that too shall pass – eventually! The waiting is hard, but there’s no alternative, unfortunately! Stay strong – and adapt!

      1. Dorthy and Amanda, I had my mohs surgery Nov. 2 and am glad to hear my experience is not that different than yours. I still feel my incision is numb and tingles. The area directly on my lip continues to have skin pealing off. The incision site is still red and bumpy but some light cover up make up makes it look pretty good. I had brachy therapy on the top of my nose last year and the horrible large scabby/blistery area lasted for more than a month and the large prominent blue vein is a continual reminder. I try to use cover up on it but it doesn’t seem to cover. People always are telling me I have written on myself with a blue pen. Good luck with the healing

      2. “Never be ashamed of a mark or a scar. It simply means you are stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.” A friend sent me a little cartoon with that and it always cheers me up and makes me smile. (A bit of a wonky smile, but still a smile!)

  38. So glad I found this blog. I just had my mohs surgery today on my top lip and was getting quite worried about the swelling but I feel better after reading everyone’s experiences. Thank you and happy healing 💋

  39. I am almost 6 months after MOHS….I posted a comment on 6/14/15 from mine….I still have the numbness and alittle redness – and also had a “little lump” in my top lip corner – I hope eventually the numbness and the lump goes away – but if it doesn’t – I can live with it!

  40. Just an added note about the numbness. My surgery was now just 14 months ago and I had a very large incision. There is still a bit of numbness, but it is getting better all the time. At first, I was afraid to move my lip as to fear that I would damage the incision or stretch it somehow. Once I got past the 6 month mark, I realized, the lip was healed and it was me that needed to stretch and exercise my lip. Now, it is feeling better and I am able to smile again without feeling uncomfortable. I have experienced surgeries before, and I know that no matter what, the incision will always feel a bit funny, just have to get used to it. All of this will get better. I am now waiting for an appt. to see Dermatologist regarding the lesion on top of my nose—ehh–oh well!! I have good surgeons already!! Take care to all!!

    1. i have had both the mohs surgery and the brachytherapy radiation for a skin cancer on my upper (mohs) and the radiation on my nose. pluses and problems with both but hopefully they both will have taken care of the skin cancer. my upper lip scar is a month old and still is bumpy and numb/tingly. i can cover it fairly well with makeup. the outside of my nose is very smooth, but he skin is very thin and i have a large blue vein that is about an inch long. it looks like i wrote on myself. also the inside of my nose is very tender and i get bloody noses easily.

  41. Hello all, I have read each account as I prepare for surgery on my BCC surgery on my lower lip on the 17th of February. I am a teacher so I am concerned about being able to speak clearly and without drooling which I found to be a problem after the biopsy. Each of your posts has been helpful in preparing me for this surgery. I have had many surgeries over the years having GIST cancer, a C-Section and ear/nose/throat surgeries; yet this one concerns me significantly. Thank you all for your posts and I will keep a positive mindset as my date gets closer.

    1. Dear Patricia. You’ve already had a hell of a time – this one’s probably worrying you because a) it’s yet another darn operation/illness and b) it’ll have visible, physical after effects. Poor baby! From my own experience (6 months after op on upper lip) – the bad news is that you most likely won’t be able to speak clearly (you’ll probably sound like a bad ventriloquist) and you may well drool a little bit. The good news is that it does get better. Mine took a bit longer than I expected, but all of a sudden (literally over the past week) a whole lot of sensation has come back into my lip. Nerves only grow 1mm a month – plus they have to battle to grow through the scar tissue which is a really big deal for those tiny, tiny nerves – so you need to be gentle with them (and yourself) and just let them get on with healing.
      A side effect that I’d not expected was not being able to close my mouth properly while I was sleeping – so I’d wake up with the worst dry mouth and throat and headaches – that too has now stopped, plus I can even drink from a bottle (previously I’d spill it all down my front if I didn’t concentrate on pursing my lips properly). Everyone is different in terms of recovery/side effects/actual procedure and damage – but we’re all exactly the same when it comes to worrying. All I can say is, it’s cancer for heaven’s sake – not big bad melanoma cancer – but it is cancer and it’s as much a shock to your mind & emotions as well as physically to that poor little lip of yours. So yes, you’re a teacher – and you’ll still be a teacher afterwards, you’re just gonna be a teacher with a bum lip for a while. Love that lip now while it’s damaged and especially afterwards when all those thousands and nerves and all those little muscles will be doing their very best to get all healed and better. It’s a tough job, but they will get it done. Timewise?? It takes as long as it takes and you just need to plod on through it. My healing wasn’t step by step – it often felt like it was getting worse or I was going backwards. It’s all normal says my wonderful plastic surgeon so I too am still plodding on – some days are trudges, some are hoppy, skippy days – but always at the back of my mind is the encouragement that hundreds if not thousands of people have been through this, or are going through it – or like you my dear, about to go through it – and that I’m not alone. And nor are you. Promise!

      1. Dorothy thank you so much for your encouragement! Initially I was not overly concerned then I realized what this might mean in terms of recovery both personally and professionally. My admin was not too helpful suggesting that I need to have forms completed for Family Leave which has led me to think they don’t believe I will be able to continue to perform my job. I just need to take a step back and know I can get through this as well as each of you have done. I guess I will just think of this as a Lenton penance to work diligently each day to overcome my self doubt and vanity to enhance the recovery process. Thank you once again for posting such encouraging words and I will post my progress sometime after my surgery next week.

  42. Patricia–I woke up today and looked in the mirror and what did I see? I little tiny spot that was my bcc cancer almost two years ago. I found this link when I too, was scared and diagnosed with a very large lesion on my upper lip that required plastic surgery to remove. I researched, found pictures, and reeled over what I may or may not expect. Then a lovely girl gave me her “play by play” account of what she experienced. I am forever touched by her kindness and help. In reality, the first few days are a blur. You will be swollen, and bruised, and look like you were in a fight. After day three, the world begins improving quickly. Yes, you will be numb, and it may take months, if not years to improve. I worried if I would ever feel a kiss again!! For the first six months, I felt self conscious and would not smile. My husband and others said that it looked fine, but to me, I still noticed. I finally saw myself in some photos and realized that I should start exercising my smile and what do you know? My smile is normal!! I can speak, I can kiss, I can put on lipstick, I am completely healed and normal!! So, we have cancer–a cancer that is treatable!! We always will deal with this and new lesions (I have had 6 more removed since). But, it is going to be alright!! Give yourself the time to heal, and the love and support of people around you. Since you are a teacher, I am sure you will share your experience with others to help them when the time is right. Best to you, and if you need a “play by play” we are all here for you. Feel free to reach out!!

  43. Kim thank you so much for your encouragement. After having been diagnosed 5 years ago with GIST cancer I have learned to deal with these hiccups along the way. I am grateful for the support from others like yourself. I guess at this point I just want to be on the other side of this surgery. Thank you so much for taking time to share you experiences and hope for me. I will keep you posted on how things go in the interim my gratitude to you.

  44. Hi all you wonderful people who’ve commented on this particular blog post. I tell my dermatologist about you all and how I am glad I did this. I wanted to let you know (if you’re still reading) that I had part of my ear removed and reconstructed a couple of weeks ago for a different growth. It (amazingly) was not nearly as brutal looking or as painful as the Mohs but just a constant reminder to keep vigilant with the sun protection.

    Good luck and keep posting. I love reading your comments and how supportive you all are to each other.

  45. Amanda I had the ear done about 5 years ago and did not find it that offensive. My dermatologist did the work in her office and the recovery was uneventful. You are so correct about the need to be vigilant with sun protection. We have a home at he beach and I absolutely love to sit on the sand and enjoy the fresh air. I am always under an umbrella and always use sunscreen but apparently my skin just will not tolerate my passion any longer.

  46. Dear Amanda,

    I am so grateful for finding your blog and all the others that were willing to share about their experiences. I had MOHS surgery on my upper lip – almost the same spot as yours, on Feb. 19th. I had to get a skin graph with a v y flap closure. It was more extensive than I had prepared myself for. My closure is an angry red. I went back to surgeon yesterday to check for infection even tho I have been on antibiotics since day of surgery. She gave me a topical antibiotic for extra measure. Anxiously awaiting to get stiches out tomorrow! All that said, your blog helped me on an emotional level that I didn’t really needed. Can you tell me how long it was before you could use makeup to help cover up? I am an elementary art teacher and have 375 little ones that will be focused on my lip and not my lesson ; ) Thanks again – wishing you happy healing on your recent procedure!

    1. Hi Brenda! My plastic surgeon advised me not to use foundation or lipstick for at least two months (my surgery included facial, upper lip and actual lip itself) just in case it got infected. I had to rub in the topical antiseptic cream at least 3 time a day and massage both the external and internal areas to help get the nerves and muscles back in action. From my own experience – and that’s all any of us can speak from – it was awkward even when I could wear lipstick as so much of the lip was missing – I’ve only got about a cm from the cupid’s bow to the outer edge – so I had to mentally and emotionally cope with having a mouth that looked a bit like a mouse’s bottom if I wanted the colour! So, again from personal experience, your little ones will (or are going to have to) get used to it, even if they do stare a bit at first! I’m 100% aware of my lip 24/7 because it’s still a bit numb and tingly but friends and family have even forgotten I’ve had the op. I was trying to say ‘archaeologist’ earlier this week and I just couldn’t get it out … my friend said jokingly, ‘Gosh, you’re slurring a bit – have you been drinking already? It’s only 11am!’ and when I told her that my lip was just getting a bit stuck on that many vowels so close together, it took her a while to register what I meant. It all takes time – and on-going mental/emotional and physical adjustments that can’t be anticipated! Good luck, be gentle with yourself and always remember that a scar simply means that you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you…

  47. Hi, I am just going this week for diagnosis on my biopsy but the dermatologist is sure I’ll need the MOHs surgery. It’s all quite frightening as mine is already very large. Below left nostril and above upper lip. Im so frustrated that I didn’t go in sooner to have it looked at, it just never, ever dawned on me that it could be cancer. Tried home treatments like tea tree oil, etc, until it would not heal. I’m terrified of what my face will look like if it grows like tree roots.

  48. Amanda, thank you so mucy for having posted your experience for us all to find. A few weeks ago i was told I’d need to have Mohs in nearly the exact same location as yours, on the right side. I went immediately online to find out what this meant, and thankfully came across your site. There are many medical sites out there explaining Mohs, but none do a good job of telling you, in real terms, what to expect during the procedure, how it will look right after the surgery, and what will happen during the recovery and healing process..Your site gave me all of that and prepared me for what was to come, and for that I am truely grateful. I had my surgery a few days ago and everything has been as you explained. I was very thankful and mentally prepared going into the surgery room knowing what to expect in large part from what I learned here. Thank you!

  49. I just had my surgery this past Friday. Great surgeon, fabulous bedside manner but concerned about what this will mean for me professionally as my business is facing the clients and fashion forward. Already concerned about my smile. Face feels frozen but I must say I was pleasantly surprised when I was able to take off the bandage today. Didn’t look like the Frankenstein I had imagined but definitely distorted. Almost looks and sounds like I had a minor stroke. So encouraged by all the comments here, God was definitely guiding me as I navigated the web, so fortunate to have found this site! Still amazed that something that literally popped up overnight could have caused something like this. I thought for almost a week that it was adult acne. Thank goodness I saw my dermatologist right away. I’m curious about the kelocote and silicone tape-can someone tell me exactly what they are/do and where to buy? Thanks so much, I feel a kindred spirit with all of you, now. I, too, had been feeling selfish for being vain, but now I realize that it’s not really that as much as having to, literally, face this every day.

    1. Hi Kathy!

      Glad to hear things are going well for you!! I remember how nervous I was 2 years ago when facing this similar dilemma. But now, 2 years later, my scar is barely noticeable. My plastic surgeon recommended Biocorneum to use on the site. This is a silicone gel that has spf30. I put it on morning and night for 6 months. It is a great, clear, way to cover the scar/wound and protect at the same time. I just had my second round of squamous removed from my chest and am using this product again. Wishing you the best in your recovery!!

  50. I’m scheduled for MOHs 8/8 on upper lip and above. The biopsy is a simple scrape and I was hoping that to get the rest of the bcc it would take just deeper scraping. But it seems like most of you had much deeper surgery. I’m more concerned about recovery time as I’m very active.
    I’m going to a MOHs surgeon with 20 years experience and he will refer to a plastic surgeon if need be. But he is able to handle most MOHs surgeries himself.
    Guess one doesn’t know til the doctor starts the procedure.
    Thanks for all your stories. But they have scared me more as I didn’t realize this could be so complicated.
    Any advice is appreciated.

  51. Hi Sue!!

    Boy, I remember what it felt like 2 years ago when I was facing this similar situation. Mohs is the preferential treatment as long as it does not cross the vermillion (pink part of lip). Once it goes into that skin, there are blood vessels that need to be considered. Or if it affects the Cupid’s Bow, you may want to have plastics correct the issue as Moh’s will just remove the lesion. Mine went into the vermillion and Cupid’s Bow, thus needing plastics. The good news is it will be over soon, and you will be well on your way to healing! We are hear to help if needed!!

  52. This blog has been so helpful really, just had mohs surgery above the lip, very similiar to yours, you helped me really get an idea of what i was in for. Thanks so much, Julie

  53. I just had this surgery done 10days ago. I’m glad I found this blog because I have felt so alone. They had to remove half the top of left part of my lip & above my lip. The first few days were very uncomfortable and today I am just now starting to eat again. I feel like it’s never going to heal. What did you apply for the first month? U have been applying Vaseline and leaving it uncovered for 3days now.

    1. hi Missy-
      I had the same surgery last fall- about 1/2 of my right lip removed and an incision to my nostril. It was completly healed in a couple months. When it was first done and still swollen I thought it looked really obvious that half my lip was gone but strangely it’s not that noticible now. Very little nerve damage or sensation. I don’t heal all that well so the scar is pretty visible but a little make up helps. Anyway- it does heal and you will get through this. Hang in there. 🙂 Becky

    2. Ahhhh, Missy. Yes – this blog is a blessing, I’ve not found one like it. I also felt alone and that nobody understood. I didn’t want to talk to a ‘proper’ cancer support group – these are people who are actually dying, so a BCC op felt like I was doing the whole ‘first world’ problems/’poor me’/wussy thing. Family and friends commiserate but only people who’ve actually had Mohr’s surgery can relate to the actual physical, mental and emotional effects – big and ‘small’.

      Ref your feeling it won’t heal – I don’t want to disillusion you, my dear, but it could take months to heal. Obvs people are different, but my op will be a year next week (26 July) and I’m probably still only about 90% there. My cut was 7,5 cm long, 3,5 cm across – from the middle of my top lip right across to the edge and 1 cm deep (right through the depth of my lip). It was like a huge triangular cake-slice shape.

      I’ve always been a red lipstick and black eye pencil kind of girl, so not having a lot of lip was really hard – it sounds stupid but I was more upset about having a mouth like a mouse’s bum than the actual cancer! I had rodent ulcers and they were all inside and underneath – all you could see on the top was a tiny little sore where one come up to the surface. There were another five or six all growing and merging underneath – but of course I didn’t know that until the path report after the op. I was like, what the eye doesn’t see, the heart doesn’t grieve over!

      For months I fretted because I’d really and truly preferred having the top of the ulcer to this huge caterpillar-like scar. Everyone was like ‘But it was skin cancer!!!!” – and I was “So? It might not have got worse. Gotta die of something, right?” (Total denial, of course – this time a year later, I could’ve lost my whole mouth, cheek and nose, but it took ages to sink in!)

      Now my scar is brilliant, I’ve sorted out the lipstick issue (was back to scarlet in a few months – still looks a bit odd, but I just think “Screw it!” and do it!) There’s no muscle damage, so I can smile, there’s just a bit of numb tissue where the nerves are still growing back.

      Did your doc/surgeon not give you an antiseptic healing cream? I personally don’t think Vaseline is good enough for a surgical op – it’s ok for a scrape or scratch, but I’d suggest something more medicine-y. (Although I’m not a medical expert – maybe someone else can help on that.)

      Once it’s healed, you can use a tissue oil or Vit E, but while it’s still stitched you need to keep it clean and moisturised. I would think that Vaseline would keep it too oily and the skin wouldn’t have a chance to dry? Whatever you get, while the stitches are in, just pat it in gently, but once the stitches are out, you need to massage the top (and underneath) quite firmly (but obvs not enough to hurt). You need to try to get a finger inside your mouth and one on top and sort of gently rub them together. This helps with scar tissue, muscle mobilisation and also helps all the little nerves. There are thousands in your lip, and they only grow back 1 mm a month – it’s tough fighting their little way through that sore tissue/muscle, so you need to be really patient and kind to them.

      It is a traumatic op – not so much physically like a heart transplant or an amputated limb – but because it’s on the face (and so visible) and the mouth, so you speak funny, can’t eat properly, etc. I felt like one of the Kardashians for months – was convinced I had a huge trout pout and that my lip was touching the end of my nose – but of course it wasn’t! It just felt big! I still occasionally battle with eating – chomping on a burger is not a pretty sight – and I sometimes dribble a bit if I drink from a bottle and don’t concentrate on pursing my lips) but I just laugh it off – or eat/drink in private. People can lose half their face, or a nose – even an eye – but it’s so very personal – just losing a cm or two really rocks your world!

      You’re doing really well if you’re already eating! I was like Rainman for a month – tiny, weeny bits of food on a toothpick!

      Sorry this is a bit long – but at least if you go blind from reading, it’ll take your mind off your mouth (lol!), but I must say that your mental attitude is key. Be as kind to yourself – and particularly to your mouth – as if it were the most special, loved family member or friend or pet. We’re often much kinder, gentler, empathetic and understanding to others than we ever are to ourselves. Your hurt (or ‘eina’ as we call it here in South Africa) will do its very, very best to heal – don’t get in its way by being impatient or critical.

      Rub your cream in with care and love. Take LOTS of bubble baths – a chocolate bar, or other yummy treat, eaten in the bath is even better. (And it’s easy to wash off the dribble!) Slow down, rest, buy flowers (doesn’t have to be a dozen roses, just a little bunch – or even one – will nourish your heart and replenish your soul.

      Deliberately and consciously try not to fret or worry – I know it’s hard – but it’s still way, way, WAY to early to know the eventual outcome. You don’t and can’t possibly know what is or isn’t to come. – just take it day by day and say “It is what it is.”

      You may or may not have the aftereffects/symptoms/mental or emotional feelings that some of us on this forum have. You may or may not have a scar, but even so, never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.

      And you’re stronger than you could possibly know… And you are NOT alone!

      Take care, my dear!

      Doro

      1. It’s good to hear the aftermath from people who have gone through this. One thing I might mention–doctors want you to NOT use antiseptic and medicinal ointments for a number of reasons. They can slow down healing and also allow resistant bacteria to get established. You don’t want a tough infection to get going! As a retired veterinarian, I can attest to the importance of this. We tend to overuse antibiotics in the U.S–casual use, poor frequency, and underdosing can lead to big problems. So I’ll be using just the vaseline unless there is a specific reason to do otherwise.

        My 48-hour post-op pressure bandage comes off tomorrow.

        My two biggest issues are all about appearances. A) I’m vain. I hate having a big “thang” to draw attention. B) My first children’s book comes out this year. That means readings at libraries, schools, and book stores–if I’m lucky! I am worried about kids being scared or put off or not paying attention because all they can see is the big scar on my face. Dang. What timing.

        They took a big old divot out of my upper lip. Took 4 excavations, as I call the rounds of excision, and a V to Y plasty to reconstruct the area. I’ve had to do that sort of thing on dogs. But dogs really don’t seem to care about scars or even if they are missing a leg, as long as they are loved and can play and eat. I need the same philosophy!

        Tomorrow I get to see the initial appearance. Wish me luck.

      2. I do wish you luck. And no matter what you look like – I’ll love you like my dog … LOL!

      3. Thank you! It’s not too bad, all things considered. After 2 weeks, my upper lip is almost symmetrical, and the scar looks like a big, red “This Side Up” arrow. Handy, that–now I wont’ get confused! It feels weird as heck: like someone replaced a chunk of me with a piece of leather. I get electric tingles, and itches, and occasional deep pain. It feels better with gauze covering it. Fewer electric zaps. And I’m less likely to claw at it.

      4. Hiya! The electric tingles are totally normal – my plastic surgeon has a proper medical name for it which I can’t remember. Something to do with the nerves reconstructing themselves. It’s all part of the healing process! Glad to see you can still joke about it!

  54. Missy- I forgot to mention I used scar gel and also Metipak tape I got on Amazon. Actually the Metipak tape worked better to me and it’s a lot less expensive. I used it at night and the gel during the day since it was invisible.

  55. Thank you for a very clear description of your experience. Mine was a little different. My carcinoma had been there about 10 years. I went to two other dermatologists over that time, who refused to biopsy it. Finally someone did, and yesterday, it was removed from almost the same location as yours. It took 4 rounds and about 30 injections of local anaesthetic, which were all quite painful. I have a low pain tolerance and can’t take the kind with epinephrine in it. That ingredient cuts down bleeding and extends the pain block. So I had a lot. The whole process took about 4 hours. Not the most fun day for a person with a needle phobia!

    They did a V-to-Y plasty to reconstruct the area, and tomorrow I take the pressure bandage off to see what it looks like. I’m thinking of adopting a piratical flair to my wardrobe. Ha! But everyone’s scars seems to look quite good after a short time.

    Like you, I am a big believer in sunblock. I’m also very fair-skinned and a recluse/couch potato/computer nerd/bookworm by nature.I’m hoping this doesn’t scare small children–my new children’s book comes out this year, and I had planned doing several readings in libraries and classrooms. Maybe I can wear a mask–sort of a Phantom of the Opera with Whimsy kind of thing?

    Thanks for your informational blog!

  56. Thanks so much for giving a patients viewpoint. The support is appreciated greatly. Mine is a reaction to the antibiotics and maybe the numbing agent. Yes, the avoidance looks from strangers and I realize, you too some day, hopefully not. Again thanks.

  57. This is a great blog, thank you! Can someone please answer some questions I have, if you’re able? I have a basal cell on the upper lip, right in the middle under my nose in the pink area of the lip. I haven’t had surgery yet, but I’m so worried because I’m a newscaster on the radio. I HAVE to enunciate! How long will it be until I’ll be able to sound normal and go back on the air? I’ve had consults with two MOHs surgeons and two plastic surgeons. I find it unsettling because nobody can give me answers since they don’t know what will happen until after they cut. I’m also worried about what I’ll look like. I’m still single, and I guess dating is out for a year or more. I live alone and have no family, so I’m going through this alone. I’m going to drive myself to the surgery and drive myself home. Then I have to go in for a revision a few days later with a plastic surgeon. Im also worried because I have an old dog that can’t do stairs anymore and I have to carry her up five steps to get her in the house. She weighs 55 pounds. Will I be able to do this after surgery? I have to. And I’m a lap swimmer..how long until I can swim again? I’m so upset over this.

    1. Hi, I had a fairly big basal cell in the same spot, except under one nostril. I read every horror story on Mohs and in the end it was removed and I only took 2 weeks off work…and was anticipating months off work, possibly. Im a therapist that sees people all day long. So go in with an open mind. Follow aftercare instructions to a T and it helps alot. But theyre correct in that until they do surgery they wont know how much needs removing.

    2. Hi Lisa, first things first: lifting anything more than about 8 pounds after surgery is contraindicated. You don’t want anything that will put pressure on that incision line, and lifting increases blood pressure, causing more fluid leakage. Your doctor will probably tell you that or it should be in the discharge papers. If you want a clean and uncomplicated recovery, it’s like any other incision in that regard.

      I was swimming laps and had to stop for two weeks. The sutures came out at 1 week. Then you need another week for the holes where the sutures were to seal up. Pools are notoriously dirty, despite the chlorine. You don’t want an infection to make scarring worse.

      Second, about how you will sound. So much depends on exactly where on your lip the incision will be and how much tissue must be removed. Mine extended from about 1/4 inch above the lip, at about 1/2 inch from the midline. Enunciation was affected for a day from the local anesthetic–just like going to the dentist–but then after that wore off as long as the pressure bandage was in place. That was a week. After that, it does depend on your incision. I wore a bandage for a couple of weeks longer, since it reduced the itchy feeling for me. My enunciation was not affected by that light bandage.

      Your mileage may vary. (Small attempt to interject a little humor.)

      Talking to plastic surgeons sounds like the best bet for long-term return to normalcy. It sounds like you are doing all the right things.

      Best wishes for a quick and painless procedure and an uncomplicated recovery. You are going to be okay!

    3. Hi Lisa,

      1) First things first. You are going to be okay! Do follow your doctor’s orders about lifting things. It’s recommended you not lift things greater than 8 lbs.–about a gallon of milk. So you’ll need to make arrangements for your dog. This is because lifting increases blood flow, and that can mean more bleeding at the incision, pulling stitches, etc.

      2) I swim laps and had to take 2 weeks off. The sutures came out in a week, but then you need another week for the holes from the sutures to seal up. Poos are notorious germ repositories, despite the heavy chlorine that is used. You don’t want that surgery site to get infected.

      3) Enunciation will be affected immediately after surgery if they use local injections, just like getting novocaine at the dentist. That lasted about a day for me, since I had so many injections. The pressure bandage stays on for about a week as I recall. Depending on placement of the bandage and tape, that could make a difference. You may just have to overcompensate for clarity. But you really need the pressure bandage to prevent complications due to swelling. Past that, it depends on how much of your lip is involved in the actual surgery. That is, how much tissue is being removed. My incision was above my lip but did not extend into my lip at all. My lip stayed swollen for weeks, but my lip mobility and hence enunciation was not affected.

      It sounds like you are doing all the right things by getting multiple consultations. It is true that until they get in there, they don’t know how much tissue will be removed–that’s why they do the Mohs, to take a little at a time until they get it all. This procedure takes the least amount of extra tissue and still has a high success rate of complete removal of the tumor.

      Once the incision is healed, you may experience stiffness of your lip. As your surgeon about when you can massage the area to prevent excessive collagen/scar tissue and decrease contraction of the scar, which makes it hard. I use petrolatum (Vaseline) and do light massage, plus I do facial exercises like singers do to keep flexibility in my upper lip. It was really thick and hard for a few weeks but has become more flexible over time. I didn’t have any problem talking during any of it, but the area felt strange to start due to numbness and itching.

      I hope this helps!

      Best wishes for a smooth surgery and hasty recovery.

  58. Thank you so much for all of your information! I just had the surgery in a similar location just above my lip. I am so upset by what it looks like- my lip on one side is totally a different shape than my other side. The surgery side is pulled way up and there is a little popped out area that looks like it was puckered out from being pulled together. I don’t know if this is going to go away. I had my surgery 6 days ago. I can’t get used to my face looking like this. I’m fine with the scar but it looks like I am scowling on one side now. 😦 Did your lip looked deformed and it fixed itself eventually?

    1. Hey, Rachael! I’m a veterinarian, not a physician, but the same principles of healing apply. You are likely to look like a prizefighter for a couple of weeks. Your skin is reacting to a bunch of trauma. Any incision will swell, but when you take a chunk of tissue out as well, there is space there, despite the best efforts to suture it all closed. Cells have been damaged and have to repair. Seepage of intercellular fluid has to be handled by the body.

      Follow your doctor’s directions for quickest return to normal.

      I looked horrid afterward. 6 months later, I have a scar and a slight distortion of my lip. (It was WAY pulled up for a few weeks after during healing.)

      Deep breaths! Give your body a chance to do its job, and don’t look in the mirror except to evaluate for infection, etc. You are going to be okay.

    2. Hello–I too found this blog several years ago when I had my bcc removed on my upper lip. I had my removed by a plastic surgeon as it extended through several different types of tissues. The scar goes from under my nose and wraps into my mouth. It was the repair surgery for a cleft palate. Now, some 4 years later, I have had some fillers placed in my face to accommodate for the inconsistencies in my lip and my smile. I am very happy with the results and feel like it has shaved a few years off of my face and age. So, time and patience will heal all. No one will even notice!!

      1. Hi Kim!

        I have been periodically checking back on this thread as I’ve been healing from my upper right lip Mohs procedure on 1/11 this year. I had the same type of closure as you, except mine starts just under the side of my right nostril and extends down and wraps into my lip.

        I think it’s healing well considering it’s been a little less than a month…my lip still has a decent amount of residual swelling in the right half of my lip which makes me look odd as my upper lip is not symmetrical due to the swelling. I already have naturally plump lips so the concentrated swelling makes me look weird and I almost feel like it makes closing my mouth difficult and uncomfortable, like my bite feels different or something. Did you have this issue as well? I’m curious to know how long it takes for all the swelling to completely dissipate, it almost feels like my lip became more swollen/puffy in the past couple of days compared to last week and now I worry that my lip will stay puffy and shapeless forever :(. I can start scar massage in a couple of days so I hope this helps with evening everything out and clearing some of that swelling. I can still feel the internal sutures so I’m not sure how hard I should be rubbing.

        How long did it take for your lips to look normal again and have the fillers helped to give your lips more symmetry? I’m worried about how distorted my lip is going to look when I’m done healing. I can tell that the right side of my upper lip is shorter and I wonder if fillers can be injected in the lip corner to help elongate and balance with the left side of the lip. I also have two indents on each side of my incision line, I’m guessing this is probably due to the scar contracting and hope this will eventually flatten out. If not, I’m wondering if fillers can help with that as well or if you can’t inject into hard scar tissue? Hopefully I won’t need them by the time I finish healing but I’d love to hear how they helped you. I have an appointment with my derm next month to review how everything is healing and discuss laser & dermabrasion.

        I know skin cancer is pretty common but I’m in my late twenties so I feel incredibly alone. I actually got my BCC when I was 18 but didn’t have it biopsied until much later because I always thought it was raised scar from a pimple. The past few weeks have been difficult but I keep telling myself things will get better…

  59. Thank you for your blog. Going for Mohs’ consult on Monday. I have also had a lot of issues with gum ulcers on that side, between the molar and the cheek, and pain under my ear; I hope to God that the BCC above my left lip (just like yours) doesn’t have its roots extending into my mouth. Is this even possible?

    1. I am not a doctor (only a veterinarian). Nonetheless, I can send you the reassurance my surgeon gave me. Basal Cell Carcinomas are very slow growing and tend not to metastasize. Do double-check with your own physician. Everyone’s biology is different. I had mine almost 10 years before I could get a dermatologist to biopsy it. It grew but stayed localized to my lip. Stay strong. You’ll get through this fine.

      Hey, and check with your dentist or better yet, a periodontist (for gums)! I have lots of dental problems on the same side that are completely unrelated to my lip tumor.

      1. Thank you, Diana. I guess I should have mentioned that I had a molar pulled on the upper left side two weeks ago. The ulcer seems ot be right above or right in front of the pulled tooth area. Either they nicked me with their tools, or the old ulcer is flaring up, which I was really hoping would be eliminated once that molar is no longer making the space tighter. I just find that it is not going away with my usual and new treatments like mouth rinses, coconut oil pulling, etc.

    2. I had a lot of the same worries before my surgery. Strange sensitivities under my lip and gum sores near the basel cell. The doctor assured me they were not related and he was right. The basel cell, which had been just above my lip at least 8 years, was very localized. It had not grown or spread that much, even though on biopsy it turned out to be one of the more aggressive forms of basel cell. I found a mohs surgeon who does these all day, five days a week and he was able to very accurately estimate the size and outcome of the wound and got it all in one pass. Of course they never know for sure until they get in there, but a doctor with thousands of surgeries under their belt will have seen enough to have a pretty good idea. I also found a highly rated plastic surgeon to do the close. I have a scar that runs from my nostril through and under my lip but with a little make up it’s really not that bad considering the size of the wound.

  60. Hi….Trust me when I say that I looked awful for the first week….improved the 2 no week and I returned to work the 3 Rd week. I had a relatively large BCC removed between my upper lip and nostril 9 months ago. Many people have said they’d never know if I hadn’t mentioned it. I still see the scar on my lip which bothers me the most, however easily workable with lipstick. The puckering and most swelling is pretty bad the first week. I strictly followed the followup care routine they gave me. I am positive even 2 weeks from now you will feel much less anxious about the swelling as it WILL lessen!

  61. I have a job that does not pay me sick days and I could not possibly lay out for more than a few days! I cannot imagine having to stay out three weeks. I work at a small company and switch between transporting people and working in the office. Maybe they can give me the office position for the next couple of weeks so I don’t scare clients with my freakiness 😉
    I will have to see what happens at the consult on Monday. Please pray for me.

    1. My mohs was in almost same spot on my lip. One year ago. Now just a small dip and white spot on upper lip still a little red line between lip and along side of nose. I was off work for one week because of work with small children and lots of germs. Good luck

      Sent from my iPhone

    2. You are going to be fine, Elke! You won’t be freaky; you’ll just have a bandage (keep that pressure bandage on for good healing and minimal scarring).

      Someone with a cast from a broken arm isn’t freaky. Inject some humor into the situation and tell people they aren’t allowed to sign it! 🙂

  62. This blog is a blessing! I, too, have just had Mohs surgery in the same spot as you and it’s the best example on the web on what to expect as my experience is similar. The worst part, for me (besides the shots to numb my skin), was trying to eat and getting used to a big, bulky bandage. I’m using a straw for mostly everything. Sleeping is also difficult as I’m supposed to keep my head elevated, and it’s not a natural way to sleep for me. The bandage was (and still is) ghoulishly big as I have stitches from my nostril down to past my lip line. I hope to return to work the day after I get my stitches removed, but I don’t know what to expect. Will it still need to be covered? Do I still need to be careful with talking and eating? Of course, the dermatologist’s office will answer these questions, but I’m curious if anyone can advise. Thanks!

  63. Hi Amanda, is it okay for me to post a link to my MOHS gallery? If it is, dear readers who are going to have a MOHS surgery but haven’t yet, don’t get freaked out by some gross pictures. I posted close-ups and farther away photos to show you that it looks icky close up in the mirror but not as bad as you think to people around you. And look at my untouched photo at 6 months (which is NOW as I’m writing this).

    http://www.dldiehl.com/mohs

    By the way, I used vaseline all the way. I researched Vitamin E, since I’d heard so much about it reducing scars. They did some double-blind studies, and it turns out Vit E does nothing. However, it is an oil. Any oil with light massage (once your doctor says it’s okay, not before) will have the same effect as Vitamin E for lower cost.

    They recommended Vaseline, as do several major, respected dermatology hospitals. It seems to be working for me. And keep sunblock on it all the time. UV light makes the scar redder.

    1. I, too, used Vaseline as per the doctor recommendation.

      I didn’t have sick leave either, so was grateful it wasn’t too long off. The only “glitch” with BCC is they often can’t predict the extent of it until surgery day.

      That being said, it will not be too long, and just remember to not judge the outcome based on the first few days/ week, while it’s still swollen.

      Good luck with the consult!

  64. Thank you to everyone who answered my questions. I had the surgery the week after Thanksgiving. As I mentioned, it was on the pink part of my upper lip, right smack in the middle. It turned out to be about a quarter inch round… I had two rounds of MOHs. I went right from the surgeon’s office to the plastic surgeon. He had to cut a flap and close it with tiny stitches. I was out of work three weeks because I talk for a living on the radio and my upper lip was tight and numb. Now, It looks amazing! I lost a little of my Cupid’s bow, but unless you really looked, you can’t tell. It’s still a little numb, but getting better every day, and there is a little scar tissue. It feels like a pea. I’m told in time that will go away. And yes, I had to carry my old 55 pound dog up the stairs. I had no one to help me.. But it turned out ok. I’m back in the water swimming laps.

  65. Hi, Mohsters! I am constantly surprised at how many people have found this one blog post helpful. I do have several hundred other posts and just wrote something new. If you enjoy my honest take on uncomfortable topics, please consider buying my book (before it goes out of print):

    Thanks, and keep up the supportive conversations, we can all pay it forward. 🙂

  66. I had the Mohs surgery on my left upper lip a week ago. One pass was all it took and the hole was 9 mm. Afterwards they sent me to the plastic surgeon and he did an advanced flap. I had a very swollen lip but only for two days and I am amazed at how much better it looks just one week later . It looked much worse with the black stitches in there because it looked like a big scab. Yesterday the stitches were pulled and you can literally not even see it from a few feet away. My plastic surgeon said I am a excellent example of a fantastic surgery result . I would love to post some pictures but do not have a website to do so. If anybody can tell me how to post pictures on here please let me know.
    But I completely forgot to mention to him yesterday that sometimes I get a stabbing pain inside my incision and some burning. Is that a normal process in healing?

    1. I’m glad all went so well, Elke! And yes, the “zingers,” the stabbing and zapping pains with some burning was normal for me. It continued over the next several weeks, but with longer intervals between zingers. My excavation was a tad larger.

      I’m not sure how to post photos here. I put them on my own Web site, since photos can take up storage space. Consider Flickr (from Yahoo), Instagram (from your phone), or even Facebook. They are a bit more public, of course. 🙂

  67. Hi I had a beauty mark above my right lip and I saw a change in it!! Went to the dermatologist he took a biopsy and it was melanoma!!! But it didn’t go anywhere !! So I had a plastic surgeon do the surgery!! 99 percent cure rate!! I’m 5 months out and my lip does feel like someone punched me!! Still feels tight and I find if I eat anything spicy or hit it irritates the under part of my lip and it gets puffy because there were inside stitches!!! I use scare guard and it helps the scare!!! I’m also massaging area and I know it’s going to take at least a year if not more to heal!!! So if anyone out there is in same situation as me I know how you feel!!!

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